I’m gay. I’m agender, and I like enbies better than men and women.
The other day in an argument I got frustrated with someone and told them to call me a homophobic slur. One part sarcasm, one part hoping they’d actually do it and get in trouble. Instead, I got punished for using the word. I wasn’t expecting that, because I’m gay. If I call myself a f-----, I didn’t think that was anyone else’s problem.
Was I right? Is it okay for me to use that word, talking about myself?
People just want to control your speech.
Unless you are insulting somebody it is none of their business. With that beign said people will have melt downs over it, I just let them have at it. It does require a thick skin but it can be fun. Since these people are generally not very bright. They think they are imposing “social consequences” but in reality most people don’t give a fuck and can actually understand context.
Going forward just avoid having stupid idiots around, it makes for much better conversation tbh