I know it’s a joke " oh haha you’re 30, everything hurts now cuz you’re so old!" But really, is something wrong with me or are backs just this stupid? Not overweight. Decently active although I don’t exersize every single day. No genetic issues, doctor always says im in perfect health. But my lower back will randomly act up, sometimes it gets so bad that I about black out from the pain. Thats pretty rare though, usually it’s just an ache all day when I move or try to put my socks on. Its not sciatica, as I never feel numbness or pain in my legs. Mild weakness maybe if it hurts really bad.

I feel like any doctor is just going to say welp, you’re old it happens, or tell me I need 3.5 million dollar spinal surgery.

  • Moonweedbaddegrasse@lemmy.world
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    11 days ago

    I’ve had bad episodes of back pain off and on since I was 11. I’m now 59. I have seen my doctor on many occasions and I’m just told to try to get more exercise. I guess I just put up with it, then

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    10 days ago

    I’m going to wager you don’t work out your core. Strengthen your core and you will likely experience a lot less back pain.

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    11 days ago

    Start weightlifting, more specifically deadlifts. I would discourage you to go to CrossFit and anything that involves mixing cardio with strength.

    Also, use as little machines as possible. 99% of the work is with dumbbells, barbells and a rack

    /me that had back pain in his late 20-mid 30… and then started weightlifting and had never had a back pain 🙂

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    11 days ago

    If you need that spine surgery get it. I wish I had mine sooner. Most people don’t need surgery as physical theorpy fixes it. However when a few weeks wasn’t showing any improvement they sent me for a mri and that found something that surgery was needed before it parralized me. (Not cancer but still a growth)

    hopefully you have the same pains as everyone else but only a doctor can figure out the rare exceptions.

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    10 days ago

    Call your insurance company and ask for a list of physical therapist providers in your area. Make an appointment at the same time you’re asking your general practitioner for a referral to speed up the process if they’ll let you book the appointment without the referral. Follow all the instructions of the physical therapist to a T no matter how stupid it may seem.

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    11 days ago

    See a doctor, it could be any number of conditions.

    I’ll mention multiple myeloma only because I have myeloma, and although I had long-bone pain and lytic lesions, I was lucky that I didn’t have back pain.

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    9 days ago

    No. With moderate exercise and checking for correct sitting postures, you shouldn’t ever have back pain. I’m in my 40s and only feel a bit tight when I overdid my exercise routine.

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    10 days ago

    Such pain is not normal. I used to get backpack every month or so. To a level that I could not move anymore. Posture is very important. I now walk like some bodybuilder who is compensating for his small penis and it has done wonders for my back. Also it has lowered expectations about my penis, so women are always pleasantly surprised now.

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    11 days ago

    I ended up at the doctor with severe back pain at 22. It was so bad I had to call a friend to help me get dressed. Had physiotherapy for quite some time. It’ll come back to haunt me at some point because I have mild scoliosis.

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    11 days ago

    In addition to spine and muscle issues, there can be other things going on like an enlarged prostate or other swelling that pinches nerves which hurt in the lower back area instead of where the cause is located. Less common than sitting too much, but is another possibility beyond spine or back muscle issues.

    I was surprised to find out that could feel like a kidney stone!