Probably something that focuses on things that feel good to the women part? I mean there is a whole category of “Female friendly porn”. And I suppose there are lots of things that feel very different depending on if you’re at the giving, or receiving end of the “rod”. If the “actor” slaps someone with that, it’d depend which character in the film you’re empathizing with. And it’d be either arousing or annoying to you. And that’s mainly your perspective doing that.