Hi all!

We’re very excited to move to Denmark soon as lifelong Americans. I have a good job lined up, and we’re set on a place to live for a while.

Any advice from people who have done it, looked it up, had friends who have done it, etc? Just in general :)

  • PartyPatella@lemmy.ml
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    19 days ago

    Hej Frank!

    Welcome in advance!

    Where are you gonna live? You don’t need to specify city, but perhaps approximate destination? Jylland, Fyn, Sjælland? And which part?

    Which line of work?

    Indeed, try to learn Danish even though it is a ridiculous language. I believe there are even free courses, although I am not absolutely sure. Here’s a few words to get you started:

    Hej/godmorgen/goddav’ = hello/good morning/howdy (last word especially in Jutland)
    Farvel = goodbye
    Tak = thank you
    Velbekomme = you are welcome
    Undskyld = sorry
    Undskyld mig = excuse me
    Ingen problem = no worries
    Jeg hedder Frank = my name is Frank
    Godt at møde dig = nice to meet you
    Vi ses/hav det godt = see you/take care
    Hav en god dag = have a good day

    And remember! Free health care! Free schools and education! Although you will pay higher taxes, lol.

    Hope you will enjoy! And feel free to ask questions. I live very near Aarhus in Eastern Jutland.

    EDIT: formatting some how went wrong, just realised now. Sorry! Fixed.

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      29 days ago

      Ah this is great! We are doing some Danish, and will continue to learn it. We’ll be in Copenhagen, which will make leaning on our English a little easier.

      I’m an engineer, and my work will be all in English, which is a great way to start.

      I spent ~$8,000 USD on shoulder surgery this year. I can’t wait for healthcare lol

  • Sparky@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    28 days ago

    I don’t know if Denmark does it, but Norwegians love to use week numbers in corporate/education environments for scheduling instead of using dates like normal people, so you might end up in a situation where you have to check the calender to find out what date Monday week 42 might be.

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    28 days ago

    All round great advice. For a bit more silly one: record yourself opening the window for the first time in Denmark.

    (iykyk)

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    28 days ago

    Don’t walk in the bike path.

    4th. of July is celebrated in Rebild, which could be a nice excuse to drive through the country and meet other Americans in Denmark.

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    29 days ago

    Plus one for taking language lessons. Even if you don’t plan on getting fluent, it will help you settle in a lot more

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    29 days ago

    It’s worth it. I’m almost two years in Germany. Wouldn’t move back for a million dollars (although at 3 I could be bought). Work on the local language, volunteer or other community involvement activities, treat it like the new home it is. We’re fortunate to be able to move to a new country, try to be a part of improving it and earning your spot there. I’m even more fortunate to be white, male, straight etc - assuming you’re at least some of those things, do your best to counter the anti-immigration fear mongering that comes out of the political right. It effects you now, but more importantly it’s ramping up and it’ll effect people less fortunate far worse.

    Hope you love it and welcome to Europe.

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    28 days ago
    • learn the language AND CUSTOMS
    • don’t hang out in foreigner/english bubbles
    • don’t assume anything works the way it does in the US (from gasoline and driving to medical to government). There are lots of little things that seem like they obviously must be done X way but aren’t in other countries
    • be careful with any investments. It’s very easy to end up with PFICs which are punitively taxed (making retirement vehicles here in Japan outside of the national pension prohibitive for me, for instance).
    • celebrate
    • bring any snacks that you can legally bring but they can’t legally sell (some things with food dyes, etc. if you really like them are banned in some countries to produce/sell but not eat).
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        28 days ago

        Which tax? Federal? State? County? City/Municipality? What if some of those are zero?

        This is why no one does it. I think smart labels may change that some day, but I wouldn’t hold my breath.

        Edit: ah, to be clear, those tax types can all vary. I used to shop at a place where the same store on the opposite side of the street was cheaper because the tax rate was less.

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            28 days ago

            The reason usually mentioned is that the labels are produced centrally or some such. Though "They know the price to charge at the till’ might be slightly off when the tax is calculated on the transaction as a whole rather than on a per-item basis (i.e. rounding shenanigans). That seems like a totally solvable problem to me, though.

            I took my wife to meet my parents and had to remind her when we went shopping that we had to add tax to everything (and tip in bars/restaurants/etc.) Some things looked cheaper than in Japan until tax (especially at that time when the exchange rate was awful).

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      If you work for an American company you may end up with an American style corporate hierarchy, but Danish companies are a lot more egalitarian on average. Not just office wise, but also “only addressing the boss by their first name” wise.

      That’s been a thing in the USA for decades.

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      28 days ago

      expats

      The word is “immigrants” but Brits and Yanks are scared to call themselves that lol

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    Do everything you can to learn the language quickly. Take any language class offer you get. It will make life much easier in a new country, especially if you’re looking to make friends. Immerse yourself in the culture immediately.

    Remember that Europeans, especially Scandinavians, are not as openly friendly as Americans. They can seem cold and distant at first. It’s not because they are not friendly, it’s just a cultural feature. Once you get to know them, most open up and they are awesome.

    On financials, keep all your bank accounts and credit cards open in the US and use a US address for them (and get a credit card with no foreign transaction fees). Don’t advertise to the US banks that you moved overseas. Just use a family member’s or friend’s address. Also note that European banks don’t have rewards credit cards, so I only use US rewards cards with no foreign transaction fees when living overseas. They’ll send you replacement cards overseas if you ask them to, even when your account address is in the US.

    If you don’t already have retirement IRA accounts set up (not just 401k), do it before you leave the US. Also, open a brokerage account (e.g. Schwab or Fidelity) with a US address before you leave and don’t change the address to your overseas address, ever. Leave as is. It can be very hard for Americans to invest because foreign banks are required to report different things to US authorities about customers who are American citizens. They don’t want the bother, so they may not allow you to open an account there. And once you move it will be much harder to open the account in the US. Use a service like Wise to move funds cheaply to your US accounts for investments and paying off credit cards.

    Get a cheap eSIM phone subscription with a US phone number for two-step verification abroad. You can use Wifi-calling to connect.

    Finally, remember that you are eligible to vote in the US as a US citizen living overseas. You’ll still be registered as a voter in the state and county you moved overseas from. You’ll use your most recent address, and you don’t have to have any attachment to that address any longer. It’s only for voting purposes. If you’re not already registered to vote when you move overseas, you’ll also use your most recent address to register to vote. More information here: https://www.fvap.gov/citizen-voter.

    Good luck!

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    29 days ago

    Think of other topics and questions than work, Americans care too much about work outside of work.

    Switch your phone apps to celsius and start your brain switching ASAP.

    Knowing what country or region you’re going to would help

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        American here, got stationed in Italy for a few years. Learning Celsius was easy with this in mind:

        0 freezing
        10 cool
        20 nice
        30 hot
        40 sweltering

        If you need to do the actual calculation, double the celsius value, subtract the tens digit (i.e. -10%), add 32. For example:

        Double it: 20 * 2 = 40
        Subtract the tens digit: 40 - 4 = 36
        Add 32: 36+32 = 68

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      28 days ago

      Never met an American who wants to “talk about work” out here. They all prefer to keep their free time work-discussion free.

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    28 days ago

    Do your best to immerse yourself . When you view the USA from the outside or return to visit, you will ask yourself, “WTF is going on here?”

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    • Language is by far the most important door opener, so put in one hour of learning every day for at least a year.
    • Mingle to get out of your comfort zone: Go to after-work parties and flea markets, take public transit. Use hobbyist/ meet-up apps. Read/ watch the local news.
    • Don’t expect to be invited, especially not to people’s homes. People might also be uncomfortable being invited to your home. Meeting in a public place is almost always the better option, unless you’ve gotten to know someone really well.
    • Irony/ sarcasm don’t translate very well between cultures.
    • Europe has some lousy weather, so get watertight coats and waterproof your shoes and backpacks.
    • Take it slow.
    • Also: Enjoy it! Europe is a fantastic little place at the crossroads between Asia and Africa and I would never want to leave.
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      UK inhabitant here. Is being invited to someone’s house a casual thing in the US? I don’t think I’ve ever been invited by someone who isn’t a close friend.

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    29 days ago

    Time to learn a new language, unless you’re moving to Ireland or Malta I guess. Tons of people come to Germany and are shocked when not everyone speaks English.

    Anyway, I think you’ll get better answers if you specify a country. The EU is quite diverse, so I don’t think there’s a ton of advice that’ll be true everywhere in the EU.

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      Tons of people come to Germany and are shocked when not everyone speaks English.

      It’s funny, I more often seem to read so many stories of people saying “Finally, I can practice my German with someone!”

      And the German is like “I speak English it’s okay.” Lol

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        28 days ago

        I think it’s exactly those stories that give people a false impression when they come here. It’s not that they are false, most of the time you’ll certainly find people who can speak decent English. A tourist probably won’t need any German, but when it comes to living here long-term, dealing with bureaucracy, finding a job or making friends, knowing German is pretty essential.