• Joe B@mastodon.social
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    1 year ago

    @phil299 You realize that the only way through this is to talk about it right? It’s like breaking up with someone you are with for years then they just f up and try to forgive them but it’s too late

    • Temple Square@lemmy.world
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      1 year ago

      Yeah. It’s like when people tell me I just gotta move on after my ex called out of the blue and said stuff so mean, I had to block her number.

      I try not to obsess about it. But (in our analogy) it was only a week ago. I’m still going through the stages of grief.

    • IninewCrow@lemmy.ca
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      1 year ago

      It’s a bit different when the person you broke up with got addicted to crack, went on a bender, is living on the streets, whoring themselves out to whoever to get their next hit and doesn’t want to change even after you tell them that they really, really need help … yet you still look at them and think, it’s ok, she’ll change? right? maybe if I just talk to her or help with getting crack, she’ll change and be ok again. right?