It’s a bit different when the person you broke up with got addicted to crack, went on a bender, is living on the streets, whoring themselves out to whoever to get their next hit and doesn’t want to change even after you tell them that they really, really need help … yet you still look at them and think, it’s ok, she’ll change? right? maybe if I just talk to her or help with getting crack, she’ll change and be ok again. right?