• RBWells@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    Meaning about the actual wedding? Maybe a different DJ or give him more specific instructions (he was good at doing what I specifically requested but bad at using that to figure out what else might be good). Don’t trust that someone else’s taste is like yours.

    We didn’t spend too much or stress too much, it was fine. It was never my dream, husband wanted a wedding and not anything specific so we just sort of hosted a big party with a wedding as part of it.

    Remember it’s just a blip in what is supposed to be a very long relationship, the wedding is not the important part.

    • Revv@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 months ago

      Same here. There’s plenty I might like to change here and there in life, but absolutely nothing on this front. Celebrating 11 years in a few weeks, best decision I ever made.

      Now, the first time… Well, second time’s the charm, it would seem.

  • Aurenkin@sh.itjust.works
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    2 months ago

    Take our honeymoon straight away. We decided to wait and take our time to plan a big trip after we got married, which was in November 2019…

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    2 months ago

    Take a much more relaxed approach to the whole thing. We were young at the time and so worried about the expectations of our families that we forgot to make it into a fun day for ourselves.

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    2 months ago

    My wife and I went to Las Vegas to get married. In retrospect we would’ve taken a different airline out there. Spirit sucks.