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Cake day: June 27th, 2023

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  • Szyler@lemmy.worldtoMicroblog Memes@lemmy.worldSelf-talk
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    15 days ago

    Definitely can be. It’s your body trying to control the future situations to not get emotionally hurt like you once did, by trying to map out all possible events. It just ends up as 10 negative thoughts instead of 1 potentially negative experience, so overall it is not good for you.



  • To add to this. The sensory experience of showers is a lot.

    1. being comfortable in your warm clothes
    2. having to take them off to get cold
    3. having to get wet and warm
    4. having to dry yourself with a rough (ish) towel
    5. Getting cold again
    6. Damp air makes it harder to breathe
    7. Putting on different clothes which potentially feels different from the used ones
    8. Getting out of the bathroom to non-humid air
    9. Coldness of the remaining water (hair etc) evaporating

    I also have sound sensitivities, so the sound of water hitting the floor is also disturbing.




  • Shouldn’t it be the other way? The gender staying a girl under boy conditions, until given a shock to then become a boy?

    If you go from girl to boy without changing temperature, you are moving horizontally from right to left, crossing the boundary from girl to boy, but without nucliation sites the transition does not occur.

    Same with water going left stays water until given a shock to become ice by changing temperature to be supercooled past the transition line.




  • All you needed was an “also” in there to clarify it was an additional thing that day, not a replacement for their thing. Turning it into: “March 31st is also trans visibility day btw :)”

    Doesn’t fix their bad initial assumption, but would help them in the right direction