Yea, I became more active on lemmy than ever was on Reddit

Tldr: Most things burn, but not everything well.

Same always wondering where to click, I think something on the bottom right would be better.

Normally, the amount of energy needed.

Not getting negative Karma helps I think.

I have only see the ones on r/all and I once saw a post on AITA, where it was not obvious whos fault it was. The rest were just, as you said, people looking for validation.

Instances also need better names.

Yea, when I looked for an instance to join, the activ user number discouraged me and I thought that these instances are basically dead. Maby just a baar without numbers just saying very activ - unactiv would be better.