• InfiniteGlitch@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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    1 year ago

    People are so quick with conclusions without actual information.

    If you read the article, it is about whether the person gave consent or not for the kiss.

    We as just observers on the internet, have no idea about that. So why drawing conclusions?

    EDIT you can downvote all you want, since it doesn’t mean anything on here. However let me ask:

    Were you next to both of them when it happened? I’m assuming not, so how do you know the facts? Conclusions without facts are just random opinions.

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      1 year ago

      Dude, Hermoso herself said it was non consensual. How can you justify suing HER since it happened to HER. Do you know what she was thinking?

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        1 year ago

        He said it was.

        She said it wasn’t.

        Who do we believe, and based on what?

      • InfiniteGlitch@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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        1 year ago

        My point is, people here pretend as if they know everything what has truly happened. While we are just observers, we do not know actually has been said at that right moment (or do we?). I do not justify anything, never claimed I was justifying anything.

        Certainly he can he an ‘‘POS’’ but I don’t know. I don’t know him that much, do not follow him and do not know him personally.

        • rusticus@lemm.ee
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          1 year ago

          You can see that he kissed her on the lips and she said she didn’t want or consent to that. What more evidence do you need? Do you think she is lying?

          • InfiniteGlitch@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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            1 year ago

            Yes, we can see he did that. Yes, she said that afterwards. She showed no signs of it at that moment.

            I’m not saying she’s lying, I’m saying that the people on here pretend to know everything.

            Personally, I’m curious how this goes. What more evidence I want? Nothing. Don’t think there’s more unless we can actually get a video with sound where we hear what both of them say.

            • triplenadir@lemmygrad.ml
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              1 year ago

              Yes, we can see he did that. Yes, she said that afterwards. She showed no signs of it at that moment.

              1. please explain what kind of “sign” you are thinking of.

              2. please then make an earnest attempt to empathise: you are in a public situation, your boss, who has an immense amount of control over your future career, makes an unwanted sexual advance. how confident do you feel enacting the “sign” in point #1

              3. please then rate, on a scale of 1-10, where 1 is “not at all convincing” and 10 is “completely convincing”, the “sign” in point #1, and the public statement after the fact that the kiss was not consensual, in terms of you believing that Hermoso did not consent. in rating the public statement after the fact, please bear in mind the risks of the public statement to Hermoso (including the lawsuit mentioned in this article, the potential career damage in point #2, and the potential harm that thhe player is likely to cause to people who have experienced sexual assault, were she to be discovered to have been lying about not consenting)

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              1 year ago

              So you don’t want any more evidence. So you either believe her or you think she’s a liar. Which is it?

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                  1 year ago

                  Yes, you believe the abuser caught in video but you’re too much of a coward to admit it outright.

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                  1 year ago

                  No. You didn’t. You said “I’m not saying she’s lying”. That’s not the same.

                  Do you believe her statements or do you think she’s lying?