Apologies if this is the wrong place for this. A few subs opened up and were discussing the possibility of extending the blackouts. The majority wanted the blackout to end to keep the influx of content. That was to be expected.

There was a disturbing tone in some of the messages though. It was a form of cynicism essentially backing Reddit to do whatever it wanted to the devs, and that it was wrong to protest the rule changes as we should be okay with whatever Reddit wanted. It was almost like learned helplessness. I genuinely found it to be disturbing. Is anyone else noticing this in their communities/subs?

  • LemmyAtem@reddthat.comEnglish
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    1 year ago

    I’m not trying to nay say or poopoo you, but the best course of action is to stop talking about/worrying about/focusing on Reddit. A wise friend once said “you’ll never get over your ex if you’re constantly checking on and talking/thinking about your ex.”

    This type of post essentially functions as a reddit stand-in for you to discuss reddit while not on reddit. That, in and of itself, is kind of self affirming for reddit. Example - you’re posting this asking if anyone feels the same as you, however, by even asking it, you’re also enabling people to read it and think “gee, maybe they’re right and we should just cave and accept”.

    Instead of this type of post, focus on developing the new community you’ve joined. Get over your ex by moving on and focusing on the future, not thinking about what they’re doing or living in the past.

    Cheers