• Nommer@sh.itjust.works
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    9 months ago

    So charge the woman with rape charges as well. It’s either both were raped or neither were. He was drunk and she took advantage of him.

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      9 months ago

      Did he wake up and think, “oh damn, I didn’t want to have sex last night”? If so, then yes, charge her. If not, then once again, he is in the wrong.

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        9 months ago

        Look. It’s pretty clear that you’ve had some trauma but that’s nobody’s fault here. We have a right to free discourse without having to suffer your issues. Wish you well.

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          9 months ago

          What is the point of this comment? I have never been raped, if that is what you’re implying. I’m capable of empathizing with victims of rape

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          9 months ago

          Nah, I empathize with victims of rape. I urge them to report it when it happens. If you think that’s insane, well, says more about you than it does me

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            9 months ago

            This isn’t empathy it’s a weird bit you’re trying to pull that’s intentionally misunderstanding or misrepresenting made up scenarios in which drunk people had sex.

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              9 months ago

              Sorry you’re perceiving it that way, but no, you’re wrong.

              I know you want me to be like “oh no poor guy, men have it so hard in the dating world” but I’m not…. I don’t feel sorry for guys who get charged with rape — it’s a simple concept: don’t rape. Don’t assault.

              It’s funny that the people on this post have such a problem with that.

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        9 months ago

        Are you really trying to say women can’t be trusted with their actions when drinking? You want men to make all their decisions for them? You can’t be a real person.