• dfc09@lemmy.world
    701·
    6 个月前

    “when they think you’re gross”

    How can I know if someone thinks I’m gross if I haven’t spoken to them yet? I should just assume I’m gross, always?

    • quindraco@lemm.ee
      367·
      6 个月前

      That’s the fun part, you can’t. Don’t assume they think you’re gross, but do remember that you don’t know what they think.

        • douglasg14b@lemmy.world
          59·
          6 个月前

          Or 3rd wave femanist. Hard to tell the difference sometimes 🤔

          (For examples, head over to TwoXChromosones for nearly identical hot takes as the commenter above yours)

      • AVincentInSpace@pawb.socialEnglish
        22·
        6 个月前

        But if I tell them they’re beautiful and it turns out they think I’m gross I could go to prison for harassment! Am I really just supposed to roll the dice like that?

        • quindraco@lemm.ee
          16·
          5 个月前

          Harassment isn’t a crime, so you’re probably safe from prison.

          • AVincentInSpace@pawb.socialEnglish
            11·
            5 个月前

            Oh, you’re right! I’ll only get sued and probably lose my job. That makes it okay then.

            But just to think that none of that would have happened of someone sexier than I was had done the exact same things I had done!