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minus-square_number8_@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up0·9 months agoone of the main points and benefits of a relationship is being able to share problems with someone else and have someone that could cheer you up or to share excitement with ‘emotional labor’ is for actual jobs, especially customer service type jobs
minus-squareThis is fine🔥🐶☕🔥@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up2·9 months agohttps://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/feb/08/emotional-labor-what-does-it-mean-feminism
minus-squarelightnsfw@reddthat.comlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·9 months agoYea, but if you’re trauma dumping on your partner every time you see them that’s not healthy or fair to them.
minus-squareRodeo@lemmy.calinkfedilinkarrow-up1·9 months agoOh so that’s why relationships feel like jobs.
one of the main points and benefits of a relationship is being able to share problems with someone else and have someone that could cheer you up or to share excitement with
‘emotional labor’ is for actual jobs, especially customer service type jobs
https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2021/feb/08/emotional-labor-what-does-it-mean-feminism
Yea, but if you’re trauma dumping on your partner every time you see them that’s not healthy or fair to them.
Oh so that’s why relationships feel like jobs.