• stefano@lemmy.world
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    10 months ago

    You CAN do something: change you job, study something to improve your skills, change country if you must.

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      10 months ago

      The important point is not to do something, but rather to solve the problem. And some people simply can’t, and it sucks.

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        10 months ago

        Humans are incredible at filtering, therefore a solution can float right on by if it isn’t the “right one”. Also solutions to most problems come by as a result of completely unrelated activity. Therefore it is incredibly important to be doing something, anything that isn’t directly destructive to your goals.

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        10 months ago

        I don’t think that’s true. Humans are incredibly good at solving problems, so I really don’t think “can’t” is really ever applicable. The tighter the spot, the more ingenuity it takes to solve the problem. But a solution can always be found or created.

        You may not be able to solve the program now, but you can probably do something to help you solve it later.

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          10 months ago

          This is reductive to the point of absurdity, if this were true no one would ever die from any problem (i.e. drowning, falling, etc.) They’d simply activate ingenuity.

          Some problems do not have a solution in a given circumstance.

          E.g. I’m locked in a prison on a sinking ship that’s already 1km underwater, and my cell is completely full of water and I’ve held my breath for 2 minutes now.

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            10 months ago

            I should’ve added “given enough time” to that statement.

            My take is that if you accept that there’s nothing you can do, then that’s it. If you don’t accept that, you have a chance of improving the outcome, even if it’s small. Giving up never improves your outcomes, there’s always something you can try that both won’t make things worse and might make things better.

            In your scenario, you have two options: accept death or try something. Since you aren’t going to make it worse, you might as well try something. Some options:

            • pick the lock
            • break the lock
            • squeeze through the bars
            • try to use magic to grow gills or something

            Literally any of those has a higher chance of success than doing nothing, and if you had more time, one of the first three might even work. If by some miracle you get out, the next step is to look for a pocket oh air. And so on. Take it one step at a time.

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              10 months ago

              Ok, I can agree with this logic “it’s better to try than to give in” much more than “there’s always a solution”.

              That to me still leaves some people starving of hunger due to a lack of money and an excess of bills. But I agree that even in that horrible situation it’s better to keep trying than give in.

              I was worried the argument here was closer to “you’re in this terrible situation because you didn’t try enough” which I wholeheartedly disagree with.

              I feel now that we’re in agreement though?

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                If there’s no solution, there’s no point in trying, so you need to believe there’s always a solution. Maybe there’s no apparent solution, but with some effort one can be discovered.

                some people starving

                And if they do nothing, they will continue to starve. If they try something, maybe they won’t. Some options:

                • apply for government assistance, if available
                • apply for additional jobs
                • scavenge
                • sell things to buy food
                • change other spending habits
                • steal
                • commit a crime bad enough to go to jail (prisoners get fed)

                Each of those has difference costs, chances of success, and chances of making your situation worse. You know what you’ll get if you do nothing, so it’s probably better to try something.

                in agreement

                IDK, my goal in online discussions isn’t to reach agreement, but to fully explain my side and understand the other person’s side. Maybe I’ll convince them, maybe they’ll convince me, but either way, the discussion should provide value for the next person who comes along and reads it.

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          10 months ago

          Of course there are unsolvable problems. This is true in both theory and practice. If your family member has late-stage cancer, let’s suppose.

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      10 months ago

      Not always. For example, I’m 100% disabled with a neurodegenerative disease for which there’s no treatment or cure.

      This is good advice if you’re not locked in a situation entirely out of your control, but for plenty of people it’s not that simple.

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        10 months ago

        I’m sorry, but all civilized countries in the word offer some social assistance to people in your situation. Put together all disabled people and their families and fight for your rights.

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          People have been fighting for those rights for decades. That doesn’t change the fact some people are destitute because of health issues with no way to improve their personal situation. And if I had the physical ability to organise people and fight for things, I’d have the ability to work. I’m not sure you know what ‘100% disabled’ actually means.

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            10 months ago

            There are a lot of disabilities, so I don’t know… in my country you could have a 100% physical disability but be in your mind (quadriplegic for example), and in fact there was a person in this condition that fought the government in court and won forcing the government to legislate in his favor and others in similar conditions.