• LukeZaz@beehaw.org
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    14 hours ago

    I understand why you’re frustrated, but you’ve got to realize that the presence of resources that can break you out of bad thinking doesn’t mean it’s easy to break out of bad thinking, nor does it absolve those who duped you into the bad thinking in the first place. Cults work for a reason.

    Just as an example, consider how hard it is to:

    • Find time to learn when you’re struggling to work enough to afford rent
    • Find a way to learn that works for you if you’re disabled
    • Consider your thinking to be in need of challenge when everyone you listen to tells you otherwise, and you trust them
    • Listen to opposing viewpoints when you have thorough hatred for the people telling you them

    This is just a smattering of ways a path out of broken thinking can be more fraught than it looks. There are plenty more, so even in cases where these specific ones don’t apply, that doesn’t mean the person in question is intentionally ignorant or malicious.

    If you’re angry, be angry. I don’t judge that whatsoever. I only ask that you be angry at the people deliberately trying to make everything worse, rather than the those who they’re tricking. Get mad at the influencers, not the audience.