• TheFudd@lemmy.world
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    5 days ago

    What? Saying one thing is on a different level is not the same as saying the other doesn’t exist.

    Well, a big part of men’s problem here is plenty of people do say that in one way or another - That men’s problems in this regard “don’t exist”.

    I’ve experienced domestic violence before. She preferred to knock the shit out of me when I was sleeping. I don’t care how strong you think you are, you aren’t able to protect yourself when you are asleep.

    I have flat-out had people tell me that “men cannot be abused by women, just like how a woman can’t r-pe a man” when I’ve told people about the situation.

    How else am I to interpret that, other than “your problems don’t exist”?

    • prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      4 days ago

      Well maybe you should engage with the person you’re talking to right now instead of lashing out at arguments made by other people in the past?

      • TheFudd@lemmy.world
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        4 days ago

        I’ll engage with people when I feel it might be productive. Nobody likes talking to a brick wall.