And anyway, my comment was mostly about not potentially inflicting causes of your trauma on others. Because that is what usually happen when people fear not being in control… they try to control others once they have the means to do so.
You don’t see how that’s not a very nice thing to say to someone that just said they have complex trauma?
Where is the assumption? I was almost literally quoting you.
Look, I’m not going to convince you in a Lemmy comment chain. I just hope you can show a bit more empathy for different lived experiences in real life.
Same to you. Claiming to have autism or complex trauma is not a get-out-of-jail-free card to be rude to others and accusing them of -isms out of the blue.
And no, you were not quoting me. “Controlling yourself” is not the same as “fearing to be not in control”, because the latter extends to your surrounding and nearly always involves others around you wether you intend it or not. And besides that, I stand by my comment that people with trauma have a responsibility to not inflict it onwards onto others, as many sadly do.
You don’t see how that’s not a very nice thing to say to someone that just said they have complex trauma?
Where is the assumption? I was almost literally quoting you.
Look, I’m not going to convince you in a Lemmy comment chain. I just hope you can show a bit more empathy for different lived experiences in real life.
Same to you. Claiming to have autism or complex trauma is not a get-out-of-jail-free card to be rude to others and accusing them of -isms out of the blue.
And no, you were not quoting me. “Controlling yourself” is not the same as “fearing to be not in control”, because the latter extends to your surrounding and nearly always involves others around you wether you intend it or not. And besides that, I stand by my comment that people with trauma have a responsibility to not inflict it onwards onto others, as many sadly do.