TL;DR - Lemmy’s userbase compare to Reddit just feel more angry and it so offputting when asking a question and getting an answer that sound like their pissed off. Feels oddly worse than Reddit.
Honestly, I want to like Lemmy as I want to try not use Reddit as much. The thing that is holding me back is I hate the users on Lemmy which their often passive aggressive and really snarky. I know Reddit does have those people but I always seen more them on Lemmy where I barely used it as much.
I asked on AskLemmy community if there’s any Gen-Z community around, ideally just talking about nostalgia and stuff like that. Nothing malicious at all. Then got a angry reply saying “Fuck Gen-what, just join community and post!” and telling me about generation are there to “divide” people. Apparently, me asking community which mainly be me talking about cartoon and games I grow up with is evil.
If the tone was at least “This may not matter as much and you find it better picking any community that in your best interest” then I’m be alright, it the way they seem pissed at me for even asking it like I’m an idiot which gets to me. When I told that person to calm down and stop being snarky, I got reply from other users saying they wasn’t.
Might stick to Reddit for now. I know it not great but it in my experince isn’t as easily pissed off and is actually bareable to scroll for awhile. I hate talking bad about Lemmy as I really want to like it but I just hate the userbase so much that it feels pointless to even properly use it as much.
Yeah I made an account there to check it out actually. I’ve just been lazy at it. And I’ve made the assumption that it doesn’t have an app yet. So I need to be in the headspace to feel like getting a little bit of shit done on my laptop.
I can always use Firefox Android if it comes down to it though, I’ve just got a garbage slow phone that struggles a little with Firefox these days, which is why I rely on apps more.
I’m giving myself about another week to shop around and hopefully find a more permanent home. For now I’m learning a lot about the politics and general lay of the land around here.
And yeah, it really wasn’t my place to talk about development, considering that I haven’t even been here for two weeks. It’s just that looking up the what’s what regarding multicommunities, and the way the downvote blocking thing is and seemingly always has been implemented didn’t inspire much confidence in me. But I think I need to take a backseat in that conversation until I’ve been here longer.