• stoly@lemmy.world
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    4 months ago

    What I heard: you’re up to it if you’re in the mood but you’ll never go looking for it.

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      4 months ago

      More like, I will have sex with romantic partners if they want it but I won’t ever go asking them for sex. I’m completely disinterested in sex with strangers. I tried to dance around it because some folks find the discussion gross, but an additional aspect to being ace for me is that it doesn’t feel much different from masturbating. I still have libido, so both of those are just ways of handling a natural part of being human