• ReallyKinda@kbin.social
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    2 months ago

    I hope it makes some men (looking at the commenters on r/tinder who speak in terms of a marketplace) understand that they aren’t necessarily competing with other men, they’re also competing with the null hypothesis: Would she rather be alone (or with a bear).

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      2 months ago

      It also means that the remaining women out there are likely predators themselves. They can’t win.

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          2 months ago

          You have good women, likely already taken and not on Tinder. You have men hating women who think they’re all disgusting rapists. You have abusive women who look for weaker men to manipulate. Who are you most likely to meet if one group is not there, another is not actually really interested in you anyway and the third will probably cheat on you, gaslight you and maybe even get physical.