Specifically because I live in a hot climate, I’m always fighting the feeling of being suspicious of anybody I pass in the streets with a hoodie pulled up. I feel guilty because of racial profiling associated with hoodies, but gotta protect myself and my family, especially because in many cases the perpetrators of assault and murder seen in media are somebody with a hood and/or mask on.

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    7 个月前

    Of course not. I am the guy in long coat, hoodie or toque, big black boots, and face mask.

    Crime rates have dropped massively, you’re being driven into a panic by pro-police, racist media manipulation.

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      Also by walking and breathing fast. I’ve been able to reduce my own anxiety quite a bit by forcing myself to walk and breathe more slowly.

      We have a cultural acceleration of both of these body rhythms, and it’s part of the feedback loop that’s degrading our mental health.

      The best part is, despite being difficult it is very possible to take control of these things. It improves our own mental health, gives other people’s brains more time to evaluate us before having to make a fight/chill decision. And when our own anxiety levels decrease, our voices get less hostile.

      We’re all in this big soup of feelings together, and the whole soup is getting more anxious.

      In my own experience working to slow myself down, it really takes a lot of attention and effort to alter these things that mostly run unconsciously, but the payoff is almost immediate.

      I remember the first day I decided to walk slowly it was so fucking hard. I had to imagine pushing backward in my feet. It actually kind of hurt in a weird abstract way. But within ten or twenty minutes of that, muscles were relaxing around my chest and neck. Another fifteen minutes later, and I was admiring the beauty of everything around me, actually looking up for the first time in years and seeing buildings and trees I’d never noticed before.

      Breathing slow, and walking slow. You can practice them one at a time, or combine them.

      The more time spent applying attention and effort, the more effect. And the effects are incredible.

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      They’re lying about crime rates so that they can pump more money into the police for when the people revolt.

      As a mastodon thread amazingly put it: The police are their climate plan. The police are their housing plan. The police are their food plan. Capitalists don’t want to fix the problem, they want to silence anyone who brings it up and kill anyone who takes direct action.

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      crime rates going down doesn’t mean it’s not still happening way more than it should. not sure where you live, but i’m in a big city and you definitely shouldn’t walk around thinking everything is peachy all the time.

      you can be vigilant with your own safety without being pro-police. the reality is that some criminals in the streets have a common uniform that non-criminals commonly wear.

      if i’m walking behind a woman by herself on an empty street, i’m gonna cross the street because i understand that they’re concerned for their safety, and i know women appreciate that.

      since crime has dropped, should women not be concerned for their safety? are they being manipulated by sexist media and driven into a panic if they are?

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        Wow you really flipped that around, and even ended with a strawman. How are we talking about women and not hoodies?

        You shouldn’t feel bad for being suspicious of someone in a hoodie, but you should realize you are buying into pro-police, racist media manipulation exactly as the other person said.

        When you can find statistics showing crimes by people in hoodies are as common a problem as rape and sexual assault against women, then we can talk.

        the reality is that some criminals in the streets have a common uniform that non-criminals commonly wear.

        Wait until you hear how many criminals wear jeans.