Why do people think having kids will solve problems for themselves/others 😂
I mean, if you have kids you can have LAN parties with them. 🤷🏻♂️
If you go directly for a partner who games you can skip the kids and save the time and money needed for gaming. ;-)
And if too incel to get a partner you can find some flatmates who are gamers and run ethernet cables all over the house 😂(wifi will be too slow and unreliable with how many devices a flat like that will have)
And if too asocial, you can make an AI that does it!
Aka: a singeplayer game?
Played minecraft over lan for the first time around christmas with the kids ( 8, 6 and 5 ).
It was awesome until our youngest figured out how to pour lava on everyones buildings and refused to stop.
They can live vicariously through their kids and to try and make them into the person they never got to be? I don’t actually know.
It’ll solve your problems by giving you more important problems to distract you from them until your memory of who you miss being fades.
I had 11 years basically stolen from me when I married my first wife. She went from “spent time with your friends” to “you spend time with me now” almost overnight. No more LAN parties, no more gaming (because her brother got addicted to WoW and therefore gaming = bad), no hanging out with friends unless she ok’d it (spoiler: never happened), etc.
I should have left, but as a naive Mormon kid, I thought that’s just how it was supposed to be.
I’ve since renounced any religion and am happily remarried. I game with my brothers and occasionally random strangers. It’s great fun, and I can involve my kids.
LAN parties were great. We’re living like shit without them.
Source: have wife and kid, still miss it
Man… Same.
Couch co-op is still rad. Don’t know how old your kids are but we play Little Big Planet as a family and it rules
I haven’t played that for ages but I should get it out. My 10yo and myself have plenty of games on the go but it’s not nearly the same as a LAN.
Come over to mine. Bring the gaming rig (I have the monitor and KB+M). Bring the Mrs and kids too…they can chat/play too.
The bigger problem is having time and finding adult friends with similar interests locally. LAN parties can still happen, but finding friends and aligning their calendars is impossible. We’ve moved on from the days of college where time was infinite and responsibilities were low. I do look for “dad gamers” Discord channels (to find peers rather than shouty 19year olds), but have had little luck.
Sent you a message, sounds like my vibe
What games are you into?
These days mostly playing Street fighter 6, Jedi Fallen Order, Balatro and Risk of Rain 2. I played Apex Legends till they blocked it on Linux.
I have SF6, Marvel rivals and Left 4 Dead 2 installed. Could do Overwatch 2 as well. Those would probably be most suitable to play together. Finding overlapping time and interest is tricky. I’m in UK timezone and get PC time after 1030pm on some weekdays or around midday most weekends.
I’m in UK timezone and get PC time after 1030pm on some weekdays or around midday most weekends.
Weekends would be out for me because i don’t wake up that early. But weekdays might not be so bad, as I’m 5 hours behind you.
I have “lan parties” with my kids. It’s a great time and we all get to bond over our shared love of gaming.
We miss the games the most. Just like with Web1 when the games and websites were built for fun and not engineered to just push us to spend money all the time or keep playing as long as possible by any means necessary.
Come on, those games still exist. They might be overshadowed by a layer of slop but they are still there.
There’s an era of gaming that is disappearing. It’s the late XP to early 7 era, a lot of games, even ones that came on discs, don’t work anymore because the servers that handled the DRM are shut down. There are things you can’t go do anymore.
Oh, maybe I should clarify what I meant: we still get cool, enjoyable new games nowadays that are every bit as good as the classics we played and loved then. If not better.
I think my biggest tip would be to stay away from pretty much anything labeled AAA.
Problem is most of those games aren’t terribly mainstream and also you have no one who has the time to play them with you.
Yeah, I’m mostly a single player kind of guy, so I enjoy my games like Return of the Obra Dinn, Dredge, Balatro, Dave the Diver, etc.
From what I hear, some older multiplayer titles can be made to run using cracks and some kind of VPN.
I looked up Miniclip.com again just now. It now just talks about the mobile games it develops. You’re correct that much of it still exists but they’re right that it’s just not the same.
Remember when Bloons was available in a browser from reputable and popular website? Or that game with the little bubble game that you shot missiles at?
Wait was there some rule that you had to stop doing lan parties when you turn 30? Nobody told my friends and me.
I know a couple guys I went to HS with that never moved on. 40 year old, single, stoner gamers, working minimum wage jobs. I mean I’m still a stoner and a gander but I got a career and a family now
I think this should not be viewed negatively. There’s this pressure to ‘grow up’ and have a stable job and a family that many people don’t fit into. I find it super hard to decouple the stuff I do because i want to and the stuff I do because it is ingrained in my by our societal expectations.
That’s probably because it easier to not “move on”. Having a family is responsibility not many people can handle - even those that have it can’t handle it. Society pressures us into something we cant handle and it can end badly. I say fuck it, if they want to play games all day and flip burgers, let them. I’m personally not pursuing “the family life” because I don’t think I’d be good at it and I dont think I could handle the stress. I make more money than most do, I have no responsibilities, no debt and no obligations so Im the outsider because family means something different to me. If I ever feel different, I’ll move on when I want. It doesnt make sense to just do it at an arbitrary age set by society.
Aaah, back when a CD rack was an expected piece of furniture.
man lan parties were awesome but I do not miss lugging my 19" crt anywhere. and the reason they existed is now moot - we can lanparty from our homes.
The point of the LAN party was not to be playing games on your computer, the point was to be playing games with your friends, in person. No matter how good your connection, no matter how good your battlestation and headset, it will never compare to the sheer joy of hunching down over your computer while it’s set up on a coffee table, a mass of messily-coiled cables around your ankles, a janky mouse-balled mouse in your hand, as you have the ability to turn and call your best friends slurs and share cold pizza, secure in the knowledge that you’re going to go to sleep on a scratchy couch, wake up around noon tomorrow, and start the whole process all over again.
It’s not the tech, it’s the meatspace community that made it special.
21" Trinitron + stairs = “I’m gonna die here aren’t I”
Yea, I spend several hours once a week with my bestfriend a city over. We’d play together in person but mostly we do other stuff that we can’t do online when we hangout in person. That’s not to say that I don’t believe in a certain magic of a LAN party but it’s not like I can’t play 110hrs of Baldur’s Gate unless he’s in same the room.
People act like the only online games are Fortnite and CoD but it’s like, bud, it’s just that your friends are busy and find it hard to set aside time like that.
Oh also many PCs have glass sides and are risky to transport. Ain’t no way I’m risking my Fractal North unless I’m moving. MiniATX though I totally would, all the time.
Lan parties still happen.
OP just doesn’t have friends
The games suck now. I stopped going because it shifted from arena shooters that could actually be played on LAN to “modern military shooters” played by gamers more interested in their army dude RP then game mechanics. These people do not have interesting enough personalities to hang out with otherwise.
I did hear that MAG Fest has a whole room dedicated to Quake3, so I might be making trip next year.
The games are better now.
You have a choice between all the modern games including the indie stuff that is made for LANs, plus all the old games since they still just work.
I can’t get that crew to play any of the older games. It was a 90 minute drive both ways to my monthly LAN party, I may get 30 minutes of arena shooters. The bigger, yearly LANs stopped doing tournaments for arena shooters or even advertising any scheduled play, so I stopped going. If I spend more time traveling then I do gaming, I’m not too happy.
When I say the company isn’t very good, I mean
- Hearing the same few crude jokes repeatedly
- Hearing “ew girls” jokes whenever a woman did show up(they would never show up a second time)
- Hearing “ew Mac” jokes, even though I kicked their asses in UT2k4
When I said they wanted to just RP, one of them actually wanted to install a whole windows machine in their car just to have a BF2 sound board while they drive. Lots and lots of gunfire sfx. Yes, he was very very white.
I bailed before “GamerGate” was a thing, so at least I didn’t have to hear those shit takes.
This world no longer exist. Now we have laptop \0/
Little did Anon realize that in 10 years time he would still be posting on 4Chan, but now all his posts would be about how gaming just isn’t as good as it used to be back in back in 2018 and that the internet “sucks now”
Also he will constantly bitch about how 4Chan just isn’t the same since it was purchased by Amazon and incorporated into Meta
Truly dark times ahead
“/b/ was never good”
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Whats stopping you from doing this now?
LANs have never been easier with laptops.
Because now, there are better alternatives.
If someone was too poor to afford a hoop and stick, I bet they wished they could have played with one, as a kid, even when they’re fully grown. That doesn’t mean, they would go out and buy a hoop and stick as an adult to play with, when ball in a cup is the current superior game. At the same time, someone who actually did play with the hoop and stick as a child, would probably prefer to play with that as an adult, even though the ball in a cup exists
I’m having a great time playing CS with my friends almost every evening, just without the need to lug my entire setup around to a friend’s house.
I have some grognard opinions of my own but this isn’t one of them.
Kinda yeah. There are parts of the past that were excellent and that i miss. Some I’m no longer at the appropriate developmental stage for. So yeah it was excellent staying up all night as a 14 year old chatting with the next door neighbor, but it’s also going to be lovely being a part of his wedding. I miss staying out rambunctiously in college with my friends on a weeknight. But the skills I learned the next day are even more valuable than those memories. And someday I’m going to miss being 30 and spending most of my free time with my wife. We cannot stop time, we cannot avoid aging. Where I am now is a time I looked forward to in wonder and excitement when I was younger. So I will cherish this time and live it fully, so that when it is a memory it can be a good one. And i will continue making my futures as wonderful as i can, because I can’t avoid the reality that this stage of my life too is finite.
Says the loser on 4chan who supposed to have wife and children…
